Be flirty with him, yet tease him a bit. Show him you don’t think he’s the hottest guy in the room, and, if you want, you could get someone else.
If he feels he has you in his pocket, it doesn’t mean he’s going to sleep with you. Instead, he keeps you as an option. No, no, no! You don’t want that, flip that around.
4. Focus on building the tension
You can do this through flirting and body language. Stand closer to him, touch his arm when you laugh, brush your hair to one side exposing your neck. These very small acts reveal a lot.
Remember we communicate 90% through body language. So, use your body to make him want you. [Read: How to create sexual tension with a guy so he’ll make a move]
5. Don’t hang around
If you’re at a club or bar and he approaches you, definitely have a conversation. But, don’t hang around him for the entire night. Sure, you don’t want him to find someone else, but hanging out with him for the entire night shows that he’s the only one you want.
Go to the bathroom. Dance with your friends for a bit. Show him that you don’t need him. [Read: How to get your crush to notice you and like you back]
6. Make him compete
Now, don’t make him feel like he’s running a 10k race, but you want him to see other men interested in you. Men like competition. It continues off with the idea of them chasing the woman.
If a guy approaches, have a conversation, smile, and be friendly. But wake him up and show him other men are interested. That way, when you’re alone, he approaches you and the guy will most likely want to sleep with you.
If you’re always with your friends, they may not approach you. Think about it – it can be slightly intimidating walking up to a group of women. But, on occasion, go to the bar by yourself or dance just a little bit away from your friends. Give him space to come up to you.
8. Make eye contact
You don’t need to do this throughout the night, but, do make eye contact a couple of times.
